Feeling camaraderie with those around you makes you feel less alone, even though you're going to die alone. Laughing about YouTube videos and connecting over similar opinions on health care reform will take your mind off the fact that you constantly strike out on JDate and live vicariously through Pixar movies.
If you can't find kinship with other people because of past emotional injuries, surround yourself with kittens, puppies, or miniature horses.