Memories are like dreams - you can make them up to suit the situation. No one can dispute your memories when they're told with conviction or involve molestation. Stand by your memories with a tear in your eye and the lack of tangible evidence gets magically forgotten, like the middle child.
Let your imagination flourish. Let past injustices, injuries and victories grow like weeds in your brain garden. Then harvest the pity, apologies and reimbursements for therapy.