Though gender roles can feel oppressive if you're a woman who likes to change her own oil or a man who likes to diet, they are helpful if you're ever involved in a car accident that drastically changes your physical appearance. Gender roles also help if you gain an excessive amount of weight or have a sudden shift in hormones that makes it hard to tell if you're male or female.
Emphasize your love of baking or pornography and people will figure it out and stop whispering behind your back.