Build your relationship on faith rather than trust. Trust has to be earned, built and proven, while faith is something people take blind leaps toward. Trust can be broken with one lapse in judgment, while faith ignores all evidence, even surveillance videos. Relationships built on faith rather than trust tend to have less arguing, mainly because when you get burned you have no one to blame but yourself.
So when you accidentally shrink your husband's favorite shirt or have mouth sex with his best friend, ask him to have faith in you instead of to trust you. That should fix things up no problem.
Mouth sex.
Kudos.
Posted by: Hu Jintao | July 12, 2009 at 03:22 PM