Positive Attitude

Creating a positive attitude means swallowing your true feelings.  Maintaining a positive attitude means doing it repeatedly until it becomes habitual.   Start by saying what people want to hear instead of what is true and soon you'll be adored and Godmother to many firstborn. 

For the most part, a positive attitude makes people want to be around you - which some people consider to be a plus.  Of course, a positive attitude won't prevent you from a debilitating accident or caffeine headaches because God is realistic and uses a point system.